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Parenting Class #1

Assalamualaykum wbt
why did i put HashTag No.1 up there, is bcause there are more to come yeay !

It was one of my fav class in Surau Bunga Raya. Parenting Class.
Talk given by Ustazah Nadiah from UITM Samarahan.

I ve been keeping the notes like forever, i intended to post it here for others to read but well.. procrastinate won.
finally today , i gathered up my procrastination and threw them far away.

Let's Change the language shall we .. haha
Bahasa mode on.

Terdapat beberapa peringkat Tarbiyah Aulad(kanak-kanak) seperti berikut
1)Tarbiyah Iman
2)Tarbiyah Akhlak 
3)Tarbiyah Jisim/Badan/Luaran
4)Tarbiyah Akal
5)Tarbiyah Emosi
6)Tarbiyah Masyarakat 
7)Tarbiyah Jantina

 Hari ini kita mula dengan Tarbiyah Iman. ( Sebab baru belajar sampai situ je hahaha , tak join kelas selebihnya sob sob sbb ada hal lain)

Tarbiyah Iman

  • Ajar anak kenal Allah ( Awal-awal agama adalah Mengenal Allah)
  • Ajar anak sifat pergantungan pada Allah.
  • Nyatakan harapan kepada Allah dan bukan orang lain.
  • Ajar anak sayang pada Rasul SAW .
  • Ajar anak tentang Halal dan Haram.
  • Memberitahu anak perkara ibadat.



Nota Tambahan 
- Dalam labour room, sementara nak bersalin, dzikir pada Allah atau pasang ayat Al-Quran.

- Sejurus anak anak dilahirkan , azan terus, jangan buat benda lain , jangan ada disturbance.

- Ajar anak sebut Nama Allah first . ( Bukan  "Mamma " " Dadda" ) 
Umur 7/8 Bulan mereka sudah boleh sebut nama Allah.

- Bila anak tonton televisyen, sentiasa bersama dengan anak, Jangan biarkan anak sorng2, pastikan apa yang ditonton adalah perkara yang bermanfaat.

contoh situasi : 
"Ni apa ?" Sambil tunjuk pada TV
"Ini Pokok"
"Siapa cipta pokok?"
"Allah !"

Katalah ada scene bergaduh  gaduh , fighting , atau wrestling XD 
tanya ada anak , " Hebat tak ?"
"Hebat kan ? Tapi Allah lagiiii hebat !"

Anak Anak mudah ingat  sbb mereka masih Fresh ! They'll remember every single thing easily and fast ! 

- Ajar anak anak bila ambil barang orang , kenalah minta kebenaran dulu.


Wallahualam.

that's all for today .
InsyaaAllah i ll update more about Tarbiyah Aulad after our next class in February .

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