Doing and Thinking

Assalamualaykum wbt.

Firstly, I thank Allah swt for giving me the Qudrat and Kerajinan to open my blog and write. It is not easy mannn. I have grew lazyyyy. Especially when we have Whatsapp Status now. *facepalm*

I ve an interesting topic to share today and i hope for your (readers) kind sharings too.

Lately, a lot of things popped up in my mind. I think probably because i have not use my powerful brain wisely during this sem break, so Allah gave me some things to think about. LOL 

Although they are not so critical but they might as well change my life. They influences the way i think and they way i do things.

Have you ever find it hard to believe in people in some circumstances?
Do you know why? 
Because you yourself are doing the things you don't want people to do. ( haa haa confused ke tuu? )
Then, you keep having assumptions about them as they might be doing this and that, because you can do it too if you want, so that's why you don't trust them.

Let's put a stop to that. First, don't do things that you don't want people to do it to you or to anyone.
Second, think only the good about others. By Allah's will, you can change. You'll be a great muslim. Aamiin

Here's an example for you to understand what i'm conveying,
Let's say you are scrolling down Facebook timeline, and you see some people give nice comments in some random posts, (it can be any random person and also someone you know). Then, you start to have these kind of thoughts , 
"He's faking it"
"He's showing off" 
"He's trying to look nice is he?"
"He doesnt really mean it, he's just saying that"

These are some words that often come across our minds.
You think like this, because sometimes, even you do all those things.
sometimes, you too fake comments, you too show off, you too beautify words when you dont really mean them. 
You see my point?

So since you think like that, you assume some people think like that too.
Where as that is not right. They are not you. And you are not them.
Who knows what are on their  minds? Let them think however they one.
Keep your self out of it. Just assume good about people can you?
In Islam we say "Husnudzon", meaning Think Good/Positive.
It is like we are injecting our brains and hearts with negative vibes that will eventually ruin us inside out.

What if we dont think like that in the first place?
What if we take the nice comments just as it is?
Wouldn't it be wonderful?

Life would have been so much happier.
It will be a lot easier to give trust to others.

So after this, even if i dont know that person, i should just think good about them. Why bother stressing my self to think bad about others right? It will do no good at all anyways. ;)


wallahualam.

sapa tak faham angkat tangan ?
sorry lah kalau kalian tak faham.
Saya budak masih practice English. jadi BI nya mungkin ke laut lagi.