XP Assalamualaykum,
Alhamdulillah im still alive.
This horrible March is coming to an end.
Phew.
Next month,FINAL then GOING BACK TO KEDAH. Really miss my home.
Okay. Since someone asked me , "How do you handle kids? Teach me please"
I smiled to that question. :)
Ill try to answer that question.
Back at home,we hv so many children. Well,obviously because my sisters n brothers got married around the same time.. So they hv babies around the same time too.. Which is now.
So i hv like.. 14 nieces and nephews plus 2 more kids (my own sis n bro) so total of 16 kids at home.
#HAPPINESS
alhamdulillah having kids bring brightness and laughter to the family, it's a reward from Allah.
Okay let me share some tips on how to handle kids :
(bajet pro)
1.You must really love children.
Not for the sake of people,like we want ppl to see us as a loving person. No.
2.Need Sabr. Patience.
Lots of patience is needed to control kids.Kids dont like to be pushed or forced. So go with the flow first.
3.Ikhlas.
Taking care of children especially infront of ppl really tests our Ikhlas. Dont get it?
Actually,Ikhlas makes everything much easier , trust me.. It's easier to take care of kids when we put Ikhlas in our heart. As if they understood us even tho they dont know a thing about ikhlas.
4.Imagine we are them.
Put ourselves in their shoes. Join them in what they are doing. Feel excited in every single thing.
5.Always smile.
Well,no need explanation for this.
Haha kids like adult who smile continuously at them.
6.Talk smoothly and slowly.
They dont hv much vocab yet in their dictionary (brain). Talk something that are much easier to understand and talk slowly so that they can catch up. Dont talk as if we are talking to a friend of our age.
7.Be playful and creative.
When we are lack of toys,immediately find some back up plans, create any game,any story. Usually kids love to draw and colour. They also LOVE to hear stories esp about animals.
8.Distract them.
Kids are easy to distract. When They are about to cry,just distract them with things around us. Make animal sounds "Woof woof, where's dog?" . Ask them questions.
9.Dont panic.
When they rebel or cry. Do not panic. It wont help.Find alternatives.
10.Dont give up.
Always try try and try.
11.Dont scare them.
12.Approch them slowly.
Most kids are bit hard to be approached especially if we are meeting them for the first time. So.. Slowly. Dont worry , sooner or later they will come to us.
13.Dont scold them.
14.Dont pretend to be nice. They can feel it somehow.
15.Always speak the truth. Gain their trust. DONT LIE. once we start to lie. That's it. Both will be in a big trouble.
16.Enjoy.
Kay that's all i can list at this late hour. Haha.
Those are atleast what i do to handle kids.
InsyaaAllah u can try these at home.
Nahh some of them.
Aaisyah,Maryam,Zara
Khadijah,Safiyyah,Hafsah
baby Hanna
Alhamdulillah im still alive.
This horrible March is coming to an end.
Phew.
Next month,FINAL then GOING BACK TO KEDAH. Really miss my home.
Okay. Since someone asked me , "How do you handle kids? Teach me please"
I smiled to that question. :)
Ill try to answer that question.
Back at home,we hv so many children. Well,obviously because my sisters n brothers got married around the same time.. So they hv babies around the same time too.. Which is now.
So i hv like.. 14 nieces and nephews plus 2 more kids (my own sis n bro) so total of 16 kids at home.
#HAPPINESS
alhamdulillah having kids bring brightness and laughter to the family, it's a reward from Allah.
Okay let me share some tips on how to handle kids :
(bajet pro)
1.You must really love children.
Not for the sake of people,like we want ppl to see us as a loving person. No.
2.Need Sabr. Patience.
Lots of patience is needed to control kids.Kids dont like to be pushed or forced. So go with the flow first.
3.Ikhlas.
Taking care of children especially infront of ppl really tests our Ikhlas. Dont get it?
Actually,Ikhlas makes everything much easier , trust me.. It's easier to take care of kids when we put Ikhlas in our heart. As if they understood us even tho they dont know a thing about ikhlas.
4.Imagine we are them.
Put ourselves in their shoes. Join them in what they are doing. Feel excited in every single thing.
5.Always smile.
Well,no need explanation for this.
Haha kids like adult who smile continuously at them.
6.Talk smoothly and slowly.
They dont hv much vocab yet in their dictionary (brain). Talk something that are much easier to understand and talk slowly so that they can catch up. Dont talk as if we are talking to a friend of our age.
7.Be playful and creative.
When we are lack of toys,immediately find some back up plans, create any game,any story. Usually kids love to draw and colour. They also LOVE to hear stories esp about animals.
8.Distract them.
Kids are easy to distract. When They are about to cry,just distract them with things around us. Make animal sounds "Woof woof, where's dog?" . Ask them questions.
9.Dont panic.
When they rebel or cry. Do not panic. It wont help.Find alternatives.
10.Dont give up.
Always try try and try.
11.Dont scare them.
12.Approch them slowly.
Most kids are bit hard to be approached especially if we are meeting them for the first time. So.. Slowly. Dont worry , sooner or later they will come to us.
13.Dont scold them.
14.Dont pretend to be nice. They can feel it somehow.
15.Always speak the truth. Gain their trust. DONT LIE. once we start to lie. That's it. Both will be in a big trouble.
16.Enjoy.
Kay that's all i can list at this late hour. Haha.
Those are atleast what i do to handle kids.
InsyaaAllah u can try these at home.
Nahh some of them.
Aaisyah,Maryam,Zara
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